This message was preached at the funeral service of a dear brother in Christ.
“Death be not proud, for thou art not so,” wrote John Donne (1572-1631), the great poet and much-quoted pastor of St. Paul’s Cathedral, London. Yet, then as now, even the most memorable words in our language can seem empty and cold. Death seems to terrorize us like a dark specter as it stalks the wounded widow and oppresses the lonely orphan. And lest we face this menace of mankind as if it didn’t exist, or as if it had been eradicated from the world, or as if we could stand stoically flint-faced and unmoved by it, we must acknowledge that the Bible does admit its gruesome and inhumane attack on our emotions.
My beloved, the Apostle Paul says that we grieve, not as those who have no hope, yet we grieve nevertheless.  Even our blessed Savior wept and was literally bent over in visceral grief as He witnessed the death of His friend Lazarus and the mournful scene before the cold crypt.  Jesus Christ knew the destiny of death in the Father’s glorious plan of redemption for the world. Yet He sympathizes with us and has, in His humanity, felt not only the festive joy of a friend’s wedding at Cana, but also deep sadness at a friend’s funeral at Bethany. We must never minimize the sense of deep, personal loss of even the most devout of believers.
I think of the great faith of a dear couple I’ve known for years. I will always recall their greetings to me after my last sermon of the day, in evening worship, encouraging me in the Gospel to keep preaching. What a blessing they were to me! What a couple they made! To deny that the husband’s death does not leave a sense of loss is to deny our very humanity and that of Christ’s! Yet we ask God to comfort his widow because the home going of the one she loved is a great and painful loss to her, to their children, to the grandchildren, and to the countless people that this man of God touched. I personally feel his loss in my own life.
We do affirm these words of the Psalmist, “The Lord remembers our frame and has pity on His people. For He knows our frame; He remembers that we are dust” (Psalm 103:14). Indeed, the Lord speaks of the passing of His saints in a most comforting way when He said in Psalm 116:15, “Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints.” In John 5 Jesus tells us that when a man repents and trusts in Christ, when He makes that monumental transfer of trust from self to Christ, and his sins are laid on Jesus and the righteousness of Jesus is imputed to him, something glorious happens:
“Truly, truly I say to you, whoever hears My word and believes Him who sent Me has eternal life. He does not come into judgment, but he has passed from death to life.”
God has done something amazing with death. What has God done with death?
Our God has sweetened the pain of death.
Note that the Lord says, “Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints.” “Precious.” That is a word I thought that one dear saint coined herself, for she would always say this or that was “just precious, Mike.” I loved hearing that phrase from her! But in fact, she was using a Biblical word. “Precious” is the Hebrew word, “yaqar” that means “valuable.” It is used for godly women. I like the word “sweet.” “Precious, valuable and just plain sweet, in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints.”
Now how is death sweet? It is sweet in that the Lord called that one from the womb, sweet in that He sent His Son, Jesus Christ to die for that one, sweet in that He sent His Spirit to seal the work of Christ in that person’s life and then, when the time is right for the Lord to call His child home, that too is precious, valuable, just plain sweet.
The word “sweet” comes to the lips of many as they fondly remember men, as well as women, not in any feminine way, though, but in a very manly way. We all know men of whom it can be said, “He was a precious man of God and he was “sweet” in his heart for God and for others.”
I have often heard that folks get either sour or sweet as they grow older. I hope that I get to be like my dear friend who has passed away: “sweet.”
This I know: Because of the valuable sacrifice of Christ for his life, he was sweet to the Father. And thus, God has sweetened the pain that we feel today as we gather to remember his life. For “Precious in the sight of the Lord” is the home going of His child and of all men and women, boys and girls, who repent and trust in His Sweet Son, Jesus Christ.
What had God done to Death? Sweetened it. But He’s done something else:
Our God has sanctified His people before death.
The Bible says that all who believe in Him are “saints.” In fact, 80 times in the Bible God uses the word saints to describe those who believe in Him.
Recently, the Vatican told us that Pope John Paul II was on the road to official sainthood. With all due respect to the Roman magisterium and to a great man and a man I believe to have been a powerful force for good in the world, it is God, not man, who makes a saint. Paul writes in Romans 1:7 to those who were “called to be saints.” I was a Presbyterian who went to a Nazarene college and we used to talk (and sometimes enter friendly debate) about the emphasis in the Nazarene Church upon holiness. Holiness, we believe, follows grace. Holiness cannot produce grace. Holiness is the beautiful transformative activity that comes from Christ at work in a life. You see that sweet man of God whose life we are celebrating was a holy man of God, a saint because God was sanctifying him, making him saintly, making him to be more like Jesus throughout all the days of his life. Why? One reason was that by the time that he went home to Christ, he had spent many hours in prayer, many hours in looking to Jesus and depending on Him for his life. When Jesus took him, and led him into His presence, Jesus was not a stranger to our friend. He is not a stranger to His people who are His chosen ones. He is their friend, their Savior, and their longed-for Savior.
We are precious in His sight because we are saints. Paul says that we are saints in the household of God, that is, in the family of God. God transforms our souls and we are born again. Then we are justified, declared “right with God” because of the finished work of Christ. We are adopted into His family as His children. Thus, God makes us saints, His chosen ones.
That can be you today, if you will repent and receive Christ. You can know for sure that you are His and He is yours. You can know for sure where you are going when you die, just like my friend knew. You can do that with a simple prayer right now where you are. If you are a saint, if you are His child, then today is a day to renew your commitment to Christ and grow in the grace and knowledge of the Lord.
In the movie, “It’s a Wonderful Life,” the delightful Clarence the angel got his wings by helping Jimmy Stewart’s character. He became a completed angel. Our friend who we remember today was an angel in many ways though he didn’t earn wings. But he did receive the gift of being a saint, not because of anything he did, but because of what Christ did for him. He believed by faith in Jesus Christ and it was accounted as righteousness. And he was “beautified” by God. He became a saint. Today he is fully glorified and worshipping Christ face to face. Today he and all who have trusted in Christ and have gone on to be with Jesus are completed Christians.
What has God done with Death? He was sweetened it. He has sanctified those who pass through it so that they are His saints. Finally,
Our God has secured His possession through Jesus Christ
Our Lord Jesus taught in the Gospel of John chapter five about His authority as the Son of God. In verse 24 Jesus said that whoever hears His word and believes in Him has eternal life. That word in the Greek means “possesses” and the way it is used by Jesus means that whoever believes has eternal life here and now, not just in the sweet by-and-by, as some think of Christianity. In fact, Jesus enforces that teaching by saying that those who die in the Lord do not come into judgment but have passed from death to life.
God has already secured His possession, that is His people, and given us eternal life the moment we trust in Him. Our friend has been living in a state of eternal life since that young age when he repented of his sins and trusted in the resurrected and living Christ. Jesus secures our eternal life by His death on the cross. Paul, in Romans 8, tells us that nothing can separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus. Jesus says that no one can grab us out of His hand. And there is no judgment for us. Judgment has passed. The judgment for all who trust in Christ happened on the cross when Jesus died for our sins. We are, to use the language of the old catechism, “acquitted” on the Day of Judgment because of Jesus Christ.
Do you have that security? Do you know that if you died today you would in fact see Jesus Christ as your Savior and not as your Judge? You can have this assurance by doing what Jesus says in John 5: hear the Word of Life and believe in Christ, believe that He lived the life you can never live and died the death that should have been yours. Then you will have passed from death to life.
My friend did not complete a journey this week. He began that journey many years ago. He continued a journey, a journey of worship, a journey of love, and a journey of eternal life with God. Now, as C.S. Lewis reminds us, he can get on with the rest of the book!
If you believe in the One that your beloved friend believed in, you will not only see him once again, you will see Jesus Christ face to face.
That is the promise of God. That is the Gospel. For in Christ, the pastor-poet’s words are true:
“Death be not proud…for thou art not so: Death, thou shalt die!”
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.
Wright, N. T., Kevin Harney, and Sherry Harney. Surprised by Hope: Rethinking Heaven, the Resurrection, and the Mission of the Church: Six Sessions: Participants Guide. Grand Rapids, Mich.: Zondervan, 2010.
 I quote the famous Sonnet X from N. T. Wright, Kevin Harney, and Sherry Harney, Surprised by Hope: Rethinking Heaven, the Resurrection, and the Mission of the Church: Six Sessions: Participants Guide (Grand Rapids, Mich.: Zondervan, 2010), 15.
 But we do not want you to be uninformed, brothers, about those who are asleep, that you may not grieve, as others do who have no hope (1Thessalonians 4:13).
 I speak of the word, “embrimaomai” translated “deeply moved” in the ESV, from John 11:33: When Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who had come with her also weeping, He was deeply moved in His spirit and greatly troubled.